Birth control?

 Birth Control is basically a women takes if she doesn't want to get pregnant or for other reasons like her menstruation is off.
   Of course, most women in the United States and around the world use it for NOT getting pregnant. I say maybe we need to be more responsible with are choices when is comes to sex. Yeah I know I'm about to have a fourth kid so why should I even be talking right? Well let me tell you. It's all base on experience and what I have been through. So did I try birth control? Yes I did which was no good for me. It was the shot one I took every three months which I didn't take the second time because I kept bleeding all through those 3 months which were heavy.  I knew there were other forms or birth control which I did look into. So I figure just be careful and use CONDOMS.
  That did work until 5 years later. Yes, it's amazing how you can have a small slip up with a couple of drinks and not seeing someone for a year. I know not a good excuse at all which I'm not making one but the fact is we didn't use anything so stupid on are side but we have something special coming in this world soon. She is pushing us to get where we need to even more then we both have planned.
    Does it suck some days? Yes but she is coming.
Finally, my baby daddy( Hahah...boyfriend)  told his dad and of course he gave him a lecture but he asked him if I believe in birth control. For some odd reason I felt offended and upset. I felt like me getting on the pill has nothing to do with him/ or any guy cumming in a women.  Basically guys have control over that then we do. Us having to take a pill, put something in us or a shot in are butt doesn't mean we are responsible for the whole outcome.
  
  My view is take birth control if you have no problems with is and you understand the outcome of taking them. I decided not to as I could have still prevented having a baby still.
   All of this can be provident if we just stop having sex until we find that one. Get married, have kids and still protect yourself and pull out guys even though it feels so good.
   If sex wasn't something to do or a feeling we just go with maybe there would be less babies and more people graduating High early and College and doing what they love or achieve something that are content with.
    So my view is a women has a right to use birth control. Even if she doesn't don't blame just her.  Condoms are safe anyways because you won't catch anything. 
 
   Over all we can take birth control but it still won't protect us from Diseases out there so it's better to wrap it up.
  
 ( Don't worry I'm clean and my baby is safe. I was one of the lucky ones. Plus my kids are by the same father.)

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