To have a baby or not
I'm going to get this first blog off my chest. It's been wearing heavy on my heart and watching a YouTube video made me want to talk about this topic.
Here it goes. " Having a baby or not"
To me and what I have been through I say have It even if you are not ready. Yes I said it...HAVE IT.
You made the choice to lay down and do the nasty so except the consequences.
Sex is not a thing you just do as society makes it seems like. Maybe if we all stop for a moment and realize there is more baby showers then weddings because society made it feel like falling in love to sex and maybe marriage.
People can barely connect without getting sex involved. So I say when it comes to your body as a women....have the child.
The worse pain you will feel for the rest of your life is aborting your unborn baby because someone say so or it just not the right time. It will never be the right time for a women.
A guy can get up and leave you anytime he wants and you will still be a single mom.
So think about your reactions before you react. I made to many mistakes in my life that I understand that now.
I wish someone would have told me the truth about sex and what it is all about. The consequences of doing wrong.
Just like if you disobey your parents you get in trouble. So when you have sex anything can happen. You catch something or a baby. Protected or not there is a risk.
I say think smart and do what is right for yourself and your body.
At the end of the day you have to live with the life you gave up. Evil will make it seem like everything is over as this tiny little thing grows in you but Yah will make it right in so many ways that you haven't got to see yet.
Follow your heart and stand your ground. No matter how many times you made the same mistake you will get it right eventually as you go through the process.
More love and I hope you enjoyed the read.
Here it goes. " Having a baby or not"
To me and what I have been through I say have It even if you are not ready. Yes I said it...HAVE IT.
You made the choice to lay down and do the nasty so except the consequences.
Sex is not a thing you just do as society makes it seems like. Maybe if we all stop for a moment and realize there is more baby showers then weddings because society made it feel like falling in love to sex and maybe marriage.
People can barely connect without getting sex involved. So I say when it comes to your body as a women....have the child.
The worse pain you will feel for the rest of your life is aborting your unborn baby because someone say so or it just not the right time. It will never be the right time for a women.
A guy can get up and leave you anytime he wants and you will still be a single mom.
So think about your reactions before you react. I made to many mistakes in my life that I understand that now.
I wish someone would have told me the truth about sex and what it is all about. The consequences of doing wrong.
Just like if you disobey your parents you get in trouble. So when you have sex anything can happen. You catch something or a baby. Protected or not there is a risk.
I say think smart and do what is right for yourself and your body.
At the end of the day you have to live with the life you gave up. Evil will make it seem like everything is over as this tiny little thing grows in you but Yah will make it right in so many ways that you haven't got to see yet.
Follow your heart and stand your ground. No matter how many times you made the same mistake you will get it right eventually as you go through the process.
More love and I hope you enjoyed the read.
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